How do you say that your life was easier/quieter/more relaxed without "you" in my life?
I recently have a person who has decided to come back into my life. Long story short we had a falling out about (and I know this is going to sound terrible!) the man she was going to marry. I did not think he was good enough/smart enough/strong enough/had a good family ect to be with her and I said it. Yup, just threw it out there. When I was confronted, I owned it and said yes this is how I feel and I feel this way because you are my friend. Yes you are right, it did not go over well.
Fast forward a few years later. This person contacts me wanting to be friends again. At first I wasn't willing, then I came around to the idea, and now I wish I would have just stayed AWAY!
I love my friends, and like Girl Guides taught me, make new friends and keep the old, one is silver and the others gold. But I feel so smothered by her, as she phones me every night. I am always so defensive around her because she is so pushy with her views. She never comes to see me, I always have to see her. I don't like her husband or her dog. And I know the only reason she came calling on my door was because her other friends dumped her and she had no one. So, at first I felt sorry for her and now I know why they did it.
I don't have the heart to tell her but I do have the heart to press the ignore button on my phone. Now only is BBM would stop showing her that I received her message!
