I am not a Trophy

Ok so I have been getting a lot of emails lately with guys wanted to add me to their space. I then click on their profile and long behold they have nothing but half naked sexual spread of women as their “friend”. Although I find this kind of offensive as a woman, I know it is typical of the internet to find perverts and sexual freaks. I am on the internet therefore I understand and take that risk. But here is the thing. I am not a sexual object. I do not want to be part of your collection. You are part of the reason why women a still making a lower income, are still sexually harassed, and dominated around the world. You are part of the problem. (Now for all the guys who are going to scream at me, please notice that I said PART.. women need to take SOME responsibility)

Now I could get in to why some women act like sexual object for attention because that is all they know because that is what we have been objectified as by the world and the media but I wont… it would take far too long. So, I will only stand up for my self and say this....

I am not a TROPHY. If you are one of these guys that has nothing but sexy looking girls on your profile, and it is your mission to have a collection of the 700 hottest girls, please go play in heavy traffic, jump off a bridge in to some ice cold water and drowned yourself.

If your message contains the words “your hot, sexy, gorgeous, beautiful and I want you” please don’t waste your time as I refuse to be a part of your collection of half naked women that you post to improve your poor self image and low self esteem.

I have a brain, I like to read, I like love my job and I go to school. If all you see if boobs and blonde hair and can not read in to the finer details of a person go find someone else that wants to be sexually objectified, because I am not it.